How to Find Peace at Home, Even When Life Feels Overwhelming

Home is supposed to be our sanctuary, but for so many, it becomes another source of stress. I’ve heard it all from my clients: the weight of coming home to a cluttered space, the frustration of unfinished or outdated rooms, the overwhelming task of creating functional spaces, and the longing for a cozy nook to unwind after a demanding day. These are real struggles, and they can make a long day feel even longer. But there’s hope, and it starts with one simple step.

As an interior designer, I help clients create homes that bring them peace, joy, and a sense of accomplishment. Here’s how we can start addressing some of these common pain points one by one:

Declutter and Organize—Start with One Room

Coming home to disorganization is one of the top causes of stress for homeowners. But here’s the secret: start small. Pick one room or area, like an entryway or a bathroom corner, and declutter it. Start by removing items that don’t belong or aren’t needed, then introduce simple storage solutions to keep essentials organized. This one small step can make you feel more in control of your space, which has a positive ripple effect on your overall stress level.

custom bathroom shelving for storage Interior Design: Georgette Marise Interiors

Coming home to disorganization is one of the top causes of stress for homeowners.

Focus on Completing One Space

empty, unfinished dining room - see client’s reaction on Instagram

Many clients tell me they feel overwhelmed by unfinished spaces, making their home feel incomplete and chaotic. Rather than thinking of the entire house, focus on one area that would make a big difference if completed. For one client, it was her dining room. As a physician, she wanted a space to entertain but felt embarrassed when guests entered and saw an empty room. We completed her dining room, and it instantly brought her peace and pride—no longer a source of stress, but a place to gather and enjoy. Watch her reaction on Instagram.

Refresh Outdated Areas in Simple Ways

Tackling an outdated room can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to mean a full remodel. Consider adding a fresh coat of paint, new lighting, or a statement piece of furniture. I worked with a client who struggles with migraines, so we installed dimmers in her main living spaces. This small change allowed her to control the lighting and reduce eye strain, transforming an outdated space into one that truly supports her well-being.

Create a Personal Retreat

Every home needs at least one retreat—a place you can unwind and recharge. Whether it’s a cozy reading nook, a serene bedroom corner, or even a small outdoor seating area, having a personal sanctuary can be a game-changer for stress relief. For one client, we created a tranquil corner in her home with soft colors, where she can come after a demanding day as a surgeon. This simple addition turned her space into a safe haven, helping her leave the day’s stress at the door.

cozy banquette corner perfect for morning coffee Interior Design: Georgette Marise Interiors

Incorporate Meaningful Elements

One of the most fulfilling parts of my job is helping clients create spaces that reflect their lives, memories, and values. A gallery wall can be a beautiful way to incorporate family photos, cherished moments, or favorite art pieces. One of my clients felt a true sense of joy every time she looked at the family portraits we arranged in her family room. Another client, upon smelling our Élégant candle for the first time, was moved to tears as it transported her back to fond memories with her late father. These meaningful touches bring calm to our homes in ways that no other décor element can.

Élegant Scented Candle & Luxe Noir Diffuser

Real Stories of Transformation

I’m grateful to have seen firsthand how small design changes have transformed my clients’ lives. Many end up feeling relieved, joyful, and finally at peace in their homes. From a serene paint color that melts away the stresses of the day to a new gallery wall filled with cherished memories, these changes create powerful shifts.

You don’t have to continue feeling stressed in your home. Working with an interior designer isn’t just about aesthetics; it’s about creating a home that uplifts you, that tells your story, and that brings you peace.

What’s your biggest challenge in creating a calm space at home? I’d love to hear in the comments, and I’d be honored to help you take that first step toward a home that supports you and brings you peace. Remember, change happens one step at a time. Let’s find the calm you deserve.

 

5 Simple Ways to Create a Cozy, Stress-Free Home for Fall

As the vibrant days of summer gradually give way to the crisp, cool air of fall, our homes naturally become the backdrop for more indoor activities. Fall is one of my favorite seasons, it invites me to slow down, enjoy the simple pleasures of life, and create a haven where I can unwind and recharge. Here are some ideas that will help you explore how to design a home that promotes relaxation and comfort, focusing on the power of textures, lighting, and multifunctional furniture. By the end, you'll have practical tips on transforming every room in your home into a cozy retreat, perfect for unwinding after a long day.

1. Embrace the Power of Texture

One of the easiest and most effective ways to add warmth and coziness to your home as the weather cools down is through the use of texture. Think about the fabrics and materials that naturally evoke a sense of comfort—plush throws, soft wool blankets, and chunky knit pillows are perfect for fall.

Interior Design: Georgette MArise Interiors

  • Living Room: Layer your sofa with a variety of textured cushions and a cozy throw blanket. Consider adding a soft area rug underfoot, which not only adds warmth but also makes the space feel more inviting.

  • Bedroom: Swap out your lightweight summer bedding for heavier materials like flannel or a quilted duvet. Add a faux fur throw at the foot of the bed for extra comfort.

  • Dining Room: Incorporate textured elements into your table setting with linen napkins, woven placemats, and rustic wooden or ceramic dishware. A centerpiece of fresh flowers or a bowl of seasonal fruits can add a natural touch of texture.

cane, wood, glass, woven, and metal are just some textures used in this space to add depth and interest

2. Set the Mood with Lighting

Lighting plays a crucial role in creating a stress-free environment. As the days get shorter, it's important to ensure your home is well-lit, but in a way that feels soft and inviting, rather than harsh or overpowering.

Luxe Noir Candle by Georgette Marise

  • Warm Lighting: Opt for warm, soft lighting to create a relaxing atmosphere. Swap out bright white bulbs for those that emit a warmer glow, ideally in the 2700K to 3000K range. Table lamps, floor lamps, and wall sconces can provide gentle, ambient light, perfect for cozy evenings.

  • Candles and Fireplaces: Nothing says fall quite like the flicker of candlelight or the warmth of a crackling fire. Place candles throughout your home—on coffee tables, mantels, and dining tables—to add a cozy glow. If you have a fireplace, make it a focal point by arranging seating around it, creating a perfect spot for relaxation.

  • Dimmer Switches: Installing dimmer switches allows you to adjust the lighting to suit the mood, whether you're reading, entertaining, or simply winding down after a busy day.

cozy, stress-free home

3. Invest in Multifunctional Furniture

As we spend more time indoors during the fall, the functionality of our living spaces becomes even more important. Multifunctional furniture pieces can help you create a more organized and stress-free environment, especially in smaller homes.

  • Storage Solutions: Consider furniture that doubles as storage, such as ottomans with hidden compartments, coffee tables with built-in shelves, or beds with storage drawers underneath. These pieces help keep clutter at bay, making your space feel more open and serene.

  • Versatile Seating: Look for seating options that can adapt to different needs. A sectional sofa with a chaise lounge, for example, can be rearranged to create a cozy nook for reading or watching movies. Poufs and floor cushions can be moved around easily, providing extra seating when needed.

  • Convertible Furniture: If space is limited, consider investing in convertible furniture, such as a dining table that can expand to accommodate guests or a sofa that transforms into a guest bed. These pieces offer flexibility, ensuring your home can adapt to your lifestyle changes throughout the fall season.

4. Add Personal Touches for a Calming Environment

Creating a cozy, stress-free home isn't just about aesthetics—it's also about making sure your space reflects your personality and brings you joy. Surround yourself with items that make you feel good, whether it's cherished photographs, artwork, or a collection of books.

  • Personal Decor: Displaying items that have personal meaning can enhance the comfort of your space. Whether it's a favorite piece of art, a vintage find, or family heirlooms, these pieces help make your home uniquely yours.

  • Scent: Incorporate scents that evoke a sense of calm and relaxation. Scented candles, essential oil diffusers, or simmer pots filled with spices like cinnamon and cloves can fill your home with the comforting aromas of fall.

  • Nature-Inspired Elements: Bringing the outdoors in can also contribute to a serene environment. Decorate with natural elements like pumpkins, pinecones, or branches to capture the essence of fall.

5. Create a Relaxation Zone in Every Room

Finally, make sure there's a spot in every room where you can truly unwind. This doesn't have to be an entire room dedicated to relaxation; even a small corner can become a cozy retreat.

relaxation corner to reflect, read, journal, and just be.

  • Living Room: Dedicate a corner with a comfortable chair, a soft blanket, and a good book. Add a small side table for your cup of tea or coffee, and you've created the perfect reading nook.

  • Bedroom: Your bed should be a sanctuary of comfort. Invest in high-quality bedding, keep nightstands clutter-free, and consider adding blackout curtains to ensure a restful sleep.

  • Bathroom: Transform your bathroom into a spa-like retreat with plush towels, a bathrobe, and soothing scents. Add candles or dimmable lights to create a relaxing atmosphere for your evening routine.

  • Home Office: Even in a workspace, you can incorporate elements that reduce stress. A comfortable chair, good lighting, and personal touches like a plant or a favorite piece of art can make your office feel more inviting.

Final Thoughts

…the goal is to design a home that feels like a retreat.

As fall approaches, it's the perfect time to reimagine your home as a cozy, stress-free haven where you can escape the hustle and bustle of daily life. By incorporating texture, warm lighting, multifunctional furniture, and personal touches, you can create a space that not only looks beautiful but also nurtures your well-being. Remember, the goal is to design a home that feels like a retreat—a place where you can relax, unwind, and fully embrace the comforting essence of fall. Share in the comments below what your cozy space is! I’d LOVE to know!